Monday, December 25, 2006

Shall we ever improve?
We may never reach the pinnacles of human behaviour found elsewhere, but we can at least think of taking small steps in that direction. The two issues that stare at us are "Muddled Generation" and "The lack of role models". There are lot of models but no role models. The character and general behaviour of Indians have a lot to do with the above issues. While the country is booming in all sectors of the economy, we are standstill in out basic behaviour. One sees a blatant lack of courtesy and discipline in all spheres of life. Crude behaviour at the worst. It is not only inside India but even Indian community residing in other Nations whine and complain excessively about their experiences in India whenever they set foot in their Motherland- and that too about custom authorities, the airport, the toilets, the roads, streets and so on and so forth. We Indians revel in breaking every conceivable laid down rules and get very caustic and very frustrated when prevented from doing so. Bring in any rule and within a very short time ways would have been found to circumvent it. The same attitude can be seen all around us, whether it is driving, one way streets, red signals, railway gates, paying taxes or appearing in courts. Another great trait is that of the inability of an Indian to ever stand in a queue and that too in a line perpendicular to the counter concerned. You will always find them spread along the counter like multi- headed arrow, trying to have their jobs done in little time as possible and at the same time prying into what the person at the counter is doing. Another inherent quality of an Indian is to cheat. One gets cheated most of the time by traders, conman, pickpockets, workers, robbers, and so on. One is resigned to this, as an everyday norm. Even the so called educated persons who form part of an organisation will flout all the rules. Some even play God and try to cheat God.
Even in religious matters they pay, pray and obey with a view to cheat the system. As an example they would pay a subscription of Rs 0.50 per month and would want all the benefits that can be freely derived from it. Many Indians are keen to do charity works and join societies but in the final draw, the noble cause would have taken a nose dive and then they have redrawn their own agenda of spinning money in various banks. The charity work forgotten in totality. This happens all the time throughout the length and breadth of our great country!
When will we improve? Will we ever improve? Though I am an eternal optimist, this particular question will have all of us stumped!
Credit: Partly modified article from "The Hindu"

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good thoughts! Ask any Indian, he will agree to all you have said yet he/she will not make any effort to change it in his/her own life!!! I beleive that this failure comes deep down from the contradictions we practice in our daily lives. Contradictions has become our lives. We supposedly despise castes, yet we practice it when it comes to us especially marriages. We want a secular society, yet we practice prejudice towards other religions. We want equality, yet we practice inequality against those who serve us as maids and farm labourers everyday. The biggest problems a society faces are looked at as big, but, in reality they all starts from small imperfections. The imperfections of our practices.

Shorterm economical growth in India is an illusion of success. Economics is the byproduct of socio-political values and its sustenance rests on the sustained social values without which the economic success will be fleeting. The social values is a collective virtue of its population's daily ethics.

James Kanagaraj said...

Valuable points brought out by Peo Nathan. I wish to add that secularism is a trait that has to to be acquired. These values are learnt at home from our childhood and developed in our schools and colleges. True education imparts these qualities and it is education alone which gives each one a level playing field. The malady is that quality education as visualised to foster or embed these values is not available to the vast majority of our society.
Religion plays a an important role in enshrining these values in our daily lives.